The Lingerie Addict

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poppet74 asked: Hello! I love your lingerie blog! Do you know of any companies that sell "nude" bras in darker hues for women of color that have a small band/large cup combo? I am African American, a size 30E, and have been searching for a brown/dark brown bra in my size without any luck! I would appreciate any and all leads! Thank you!

Your best bet will be a site that carries a lot of different brands like a HerRoom, Figleaves, or Bare Necessities. I know Wacoal does a few different skintones, and so does Claudette. A lot of fuller bust brands are unfortunately sticking to the usual beige though.

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nombre-azteca asked: Ok, so I've been trying to get good lingerie, but for some reason it falls short bc the band is too big/too much side boob/ boob spillage, and I've been sized at VS before and I even tried sizing myself that way too but I can't seem to find good fits

This very much sounds like a sizing issue, and that you may need to try resizing yourself, going to a bra specialist (not a chain store or department store), or getting a friend (or seamstress) to help.

A quick and easy way to do it is take your underbust measurement and your overbust measurement. Your underbust measurement is roughly equal to your band size (though people with more squish over their ribs may want to size down and people with less squish may want to size up). The number of inches difference between your underbust and overbust is your cup size (1” difference = A cup, 2” = B cup, 3” = C cup) and so on. You can also use a bra calculator like the one on Butterfly Collection’s website or A Sophisticated Pair if making the calculations in your head is a concern.

After that, it’s all trial and error. You get some bras. You try them on. You see if they work. And if they don’t you try again. But it gets a lot easier once you have some sense of your size (and, if necessary, your sister sizes). Reading reviews from other people is also very helpful when it comes to figuring out which brands and styles to try.

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takecomfortinchaos asked: I'm a genderqueer person looking for a not-terribly-expensive bra that does a solid job of keeping my chest flat (like a sports bra) with spaghetti straps, not the usual super-thick straps of sports bras.

Unfortunately, I don’t know what “not-terribly-expensive” means to you or what your bra size is, and both of those details are very important for making recommendations.

We do have a new columnist on TLA who’s focus is genderqueer lingerie and genderqueer lingerie concerns, and I’d recommend checking out her first post. You may also want to take a look at the articles on genderqueer lingerie on Autostraddle.

Other than that though, I can only recommend looking in the usual places I recommend when I don’t have much information to go on: Figleaves, HerRoom, Bare Necessities, and Etsy.

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petitemacaron asked: Hey so I'm a 32AA and I've finally realized, 13 years after puberty, that I don't have to wear a padded bra to feel sexy, or even just comfortable in public. I purchased a bralette from Victoria secret and it's cute but It goes too far up my chest so I can't wear low cut shirts. I was wondering if you know of any websites or stores that have bralettes my size under $30?

There aren’t many companies making bralettes in 32AA specifically (unless you want to custom order something off of Etsy), but HerRoom, ASOS, Target, Aerie, H&M, Bare Necessities, and Figleaves all make bralettes within your price range.

Edit: Some folks have also mentioned Urban Outfitters, Forever21, and American Apparel.