Hmmm…I’m not quite sure what you’re asking. Cheap mesh and lace does rip easily; that’s part of why it’s cheap. More expensive mesh and lace doesn’t rip easily; that’s part of why it’s more expensive. Some pieces are stronger (or, conversely, weaker) than they look, so if you can, try it on before buying. Beyond that, I’m not quite sure what tips you’re looking for.